Things are moving ahead I have finely started HRT :-) it has been hard to move forward as the rules change and even more difficult when people will not listen to what you have found out about changes that have happened. always remember it is your body and no one else's you need to do what is right for you and look at your support networks as they may and often have had to deal with the same problems you are facing. that is what has allowed me to move forward Life is in a good place right now I finely feel right there is still so much more to do and changes to make as well as having to go through puberty all over again I am looking forward to all the changes. hope everyone has a good Christmas and a good new year
It's funny how friends come and go in your life the one thing I know since coming out as transgender is that some that call themselves your friend can't handle the new you not that you are new.. Really your the same person you have always been the only thing to change is the way you look. It's a pity we live in a world that judges on your looks.
But back to the title once were friends a few weeks ago I was out with a friend we were having a girly talk she was showing interest in my transition and I thought we had a fabulous conversation then a few days later I was attacked via txt by this same person.
I was told now was not the right time to do this to think of my children and that I looked like a tacky crossdresser. Obviously this hurt my feeling deeply. I am over 45 and have thought about this for a very long time this was not a easy decision to make but one I need to do. after telling me this I was blocked on Facebook by this person and now no longer consider us friends it hurts to think that a friendship can be broken over such a little thing.
The one thing I have to look forward to is all the new friends I will make on this journey
Love and good wishes to all.
when we are born and as a baby every one says how cute. then we grow up and start pre school then everything changes we see lots more people individual's. we see so many different faces and start to develop opinions! her hairs short he has big ears.
why does this happen? because the older people we look up to as youngsters already have preconceived ideas about looks so we start to develop predigests against these different people. You know if you look at the big picture we are all different people we all look different in one way or another.
so when you ask yourself Am I not pretty enough the answer is yes. You are you and you are pretty enough others need to be more accepting if we all looked the same how boring would this world be. That is why we are all different! How you dress how you talk how you walk how you look this is what makes you an individual after all do we all want to look like sheep?
No! No we don't so be happy with your body change the things you can to make yourself feel better and always remember we are not sheep we are individuals your an individual. remember to love yourself first Because when you love yourself its easier to love others.
Transgender ? Its just a view
A turning point for me the reason I chose to be me and not the boy I was born was after I had seen other transgendered people in the community taking steps to be themselves. I have never been happy with my gender and to see other people with the same thoughts as myself take steps to become there real selves I new that the time was right for me so I have started the journey to become me the girl I new I am. since starting this journey people I know say I look happier now and you know what I feel happier.
first year girl 2015 a journey I have just begun.