'You've changed, what's going on with you?'
This made me think how, as an adult, you're supposed to be consistent. I buy some 'boyfriend cargoes' and talk about the things I love about being strong, brave, outspoken... apparently masculine qualities WTF?... and suddenly my intimate others think I'm about to transition! Maybe I will... back and forth again!
I am a teacher and a learner and an activist and an artist and a parent.